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Everyone knows the old saying “You catch more flies with honey than you can vinegar”.  It is absolutely true, even though we aren’t fishing for flies.  We are fishing for good relationships.  Whether it is your family, friends, or employees, the old adage is true.

Don’t misunderstand, the vinegar approach will work in the short term because nobody likes negative consequences. However, for long term relationships the honey approach is always better.  

Some good tips to be sure you are using the honey approach is to be polite, caring, and listen well.  Be focused and attentive when having conversations.  Then always work towards a win-win for both parties.

 This one tip can make the difference between your employee having your back or kicking you in the behind!

 Can you list another tip on how to get your employees to do what you want?